It’s Sunday night. Most of us are gearing up for the week to come. This week in particular is busy for me and I am in bed already, exhausted from my son’s scrambled sleep thanks to Daylight Savings Time. On top that, the heat is once again not working properly in our bedrooms, which means another cold night with small space heaters to help keep the cold at bay.
There is a lot to be frustrated with right now. In my life, I find that I want answers right away. When I am in a conflict of any type, I want resolution instantly. If I call to complain about heat, I want someone there fixing it in a matter of hours (not days, as it happened last time).
The fact is: there are always going to be issues and conflicts in life. Each week brings them, whether they are small squabbles between my husband and I, larger issues like lack of heat, or even work conflicts. This is the reality of life.
While I would absolutely love for everything to be perfect, for plans to roll out quickly, for responses to be fast and to my satisfaction, I am constantly being challenged and reminded that life…is actually a big messy series of difficulties and challenges…and that is never going to change.
Even when we think “we’ve got it” and everything is perfect and copacetic, it’s not! Something is going to come crashing in to destroy (temporarily) our happiness or our best laid plans.
What can you do about it?
Stress and grow angry, take it out on people who love you, worry and have long sleepless nights?
The best thing we can do in life is grow and learn and change. Be like a blade of grass: flexible, surviving storm after storm. Because the reality is that we are going to be dumped on in life over and over and there is nothing we can do about it.
All we can do is control how we respond to the situations around us.
So be flexible. Take it each day at a time and remind yourself that you have survived all the ups and downs of life so far… There are many more to come and you will survive those too!
DAILY PRAYER: LORD, even though life is hard times and reality can really be crappy, please give me the strength to face each day head on. Give me grace when there are storms around me, whether small or big. AMEN.