We are the sum of our choices. Some are consciously made and some are made for us, but the majority of our daily decisions come and go with unconscious effort. The proverbial forks in the road are not entirely noticed as we are swept into routines, habits and the auto piloting we all sometimes slip into.
As it goes the choices we deliberately make always seem to hold the most weight. Most of the time we look back on the negative ones, analyzing their outcomes and ruminating on possible alternatives. The what ifs. Hopefully in doing this one can be objective, forgoing a sense of regret or feelings of bitterness. The futility of changing the past aside, looking back and looking in can be a necessary step or steps needed to move forward, to learn and assist in future situations we find ourselves in. Hindsight is foresight after all. Ultimately, our schemes fall into the greater One, but to trust in this can be tricky when caught in a whirlwind of struggle.
It is easy to dwell on the bad choices made, but it’s important that we can reflect on the good ones too. Perhaps there one may find a map or a set of directions. The map of things done right. May we allow ourselves to be steered by God toward deeper feelings of joy, accomplishment and success. May we all choose wisely, or at least choose to choose wisely the next time. The path with heart is there and always has been
DAILY PRAYER: Lord, grant me wisdom as I face difficult (and easy) decisions in my life. Steer me towards the path you have laid out for me. I trust your plan for my life. Help me to learn from my mistakes so I can break free from unhealthy patterns and habits that may control me. AMEN.